It is true that everyone wants to have positive people in their life whether it’s a friend or any relative. We even want positive people as our neighbors. But in reality, people aren’t so perfect and they aren’t always good and supportive to you. A friend should be here for you always, should treat you well and help you make the best person irrespective of whatever is happening in their own lives.
Most of the times we hear from people that their friends doesn’t support them and they are rude to them as well. You can’t change people but you can try to surround positive people around you avoiding negative people. Here are few benefits when you have positive friends around you.
They Support You Support When Needed
If you have positive friends, you don’t have to beg for help since there’s more chance of getting help even without asking for it. Positive people always wish others to be happy while negative people are opposite to this nature. They may even laugh at your situation behind you. They celebrate the downfall of others. As a result, your problems will obviously increase with a kind of frustration and stress.
Health Benefits with Positivity
With positive people around, your mindset will stay with positive thoughts always. A study has proved that positive people are healthier compared to negative and stressed people.
· Increased life span
· Lowers depression rate
· Lower distress
· More resistance to the common cold
· Psychologically and physically health
· Reduced risk of cardiovascular disease
Emotional benefits are many for having positive people around you. You will be stronger if you have them around during bad days.
Bring Out the Best of You
Your positive friends will always try to help you rebound from your negative hits in your life and will inspire to be the best of you. Just not this, these are the people you can share your secret desires and goals with. Suppose you want to be a writer. Negative people may say you’ll never succeed and instead suggest you to get a job while positive people may inspire you to achieve your goal and even may do their best to help you do it.
Attracting More Positive Friends
You can naturally attract people who are just like you. The positive you are, the more like minded people you may attract.
A benefit of being positive includes healthier mindset. Instead of being desperate for friends, you’ll be seen someone whose life is busy with lots of things going on. This attracts many people to be friends with you.